5/30/2014

Reporting a rape to the police is too traumatic for women.

You've probably seen this argument, right?

"The police don't take them seriously and end up re-victimizing them, so expecting them to be able to report the crime to the police is unrealistic!"

And that's why we need to expedite the process of punishing somebody accused of rape without having to go through that pesky "police report/evidence collection/trial" process, especially since women never just blow things out of proportion, right?






The answer to a system perceived to be dysfunctional isn't to make the system more dysfunctional by trying to remove the checks and balances which keep it from being abused, but to make it less dysfunctional by trying to get it to function more effectively with those checks and balances still in place.

5/18/2014

Africa Prediction: Female Genital Mutilation Increased as AIDS Prevention

No, I'm not advocating any type of genital mutilation.
If you clicked on the title to rip me a new one for being such a horrible person, too bad. I hate the idea just as much as you do. I'm simply predicting that it will happen.
With that disclaimer out of the way, let's get to the actual content.

How can I make such a prediction?
How can the two possibly be linked?
How can that even be possible?
Why do I suspect that's where things are headed?

I'll tell you, but first, let me tell you when it started.

Now.
Well, not exactly, but we'll get to that in a bit. However, let me tell you why now is important.

As you may have heard, three groundbreaking studies have recently concluded that circumcision of males prevents HIV transmission. This seems like great news, because a simple snip of the foreskin will make a huge dent in the epidemic, right?

Wrong.

What you may not have heard is that all three of those studies were designed by known male circumcision advocates - and later manipulated, specifically to conclude that circumcision was the answer, in contradiction to the actual data. Here's how:
  • In all three studies, the circumcised group had to abstain from sexual activity for a period of time, while the uncircumcised group were free to maintain normal sexual activity. Obviously, the circumcised group contracted fewer cases of HIV, because they were not having sex. Abstinence was the only relevant variable at that point.
  • In all three studies, when the circumcised group started sexual activity again, they actually started catching up in number of HIV infections to the uncircumcised group, demonstrating that if anything, they may have been contracting the infection more readily than the uncircumcised group. This does not at all suggest circumcision is an effective preventative measure.
  • All three studies were terminated early, before the numbers could equalize, even though in one of the three studies the circumcised group had come close to matching the number of infections as the uncircumcised group. This demonstrates that when things didn't go the way they were hoping, the circumcision advocates running these three studies decided it was best to cut them short, before the results could prove the theory wrong. They then announced their findings to the world and the "Circumcise Africa!" campaign was born.
Pretty sneaky, huh?

How does this relate to Female Genital Mutilation?
Hold on, I'm getting there. First, let me tell you what I think will happen next and where it came from.

Next, they will start routinely circumcising infant boys.

It is reasonable to assume that male circumcision will progress in Africa in a similar manner to the way it did in the USA - That is, it started as a way to "protect" certain people at risk for diseases - in the USA it was "masturbation, infection, venerial disease, cancer, blindness, insanity, death..." and a whole huge list of other afflictions the foreskin was blamed for causing. The issue actually started a long time ago in the USA. It then became a "preventative" measure which was routinely performed on infants, because it was promoted as "harmless and even beneficial." "Harmless and beneficial? Why not just get them right out of the womb to make it easier?" I suspect this is the next stage in the progression of genital mutilation in Africa.

But, you still haven't told me how this relates to FEMALE Genital Mutilation!
OK, now I'll tell you.
The answer is, The Stallings Study.

That's right. There was a study, claiming that female circumcision decreased the chances of contracting HIV. It exists. It happened. It is out there, waiting for concerned (or motivated) Africans to find and interpret however they want to.
Results
The crude relative risk of HIV infection among women reporting to have been circumcised versus not circumcised was 0.51 [95% CL =0.38
In fact, this study makes the specific assertion that female genital mutilation, not male is the main statistical difference in relative risk:
Both circ vs male only = 0.56 Relative Risk Estimate
Both circ vs neither = 0.55 Relative Risk Estimate
Male circ vs neither = 0.97 Relative Risk Estimate
But how could that be?
It's actually very simple. It's probably true. It's probably true for the same reason those three "groundbreaking" male circumcision studies found an initial difference between the two groups: decreased sexual activity. When a woman receives little or no pleasure (possibly even intense pain, depending on the specific procedure) from sexual activity, she is less likely to participate in sexual activity, therefore lowering her risk of contracting HIV. The question is, do you think the Africans who heard "male circumcision prevents AIDS" and didn't bother to question why will be more concerned with the reason why female circumcision has been shown to have the same effect, or do you think "female circumcision prevents AIDS" will be enough once again?

But they'd never go THAT far, would they?
They already do. Female Genital Mutilation is happening in Africa right now. On top of that, "more advanced" cultures have now told them that cutting off parts of genitals is not only the answer to the AIDS epidemic, but is even a good thing for the person's general health. "Civilized" people advocating circumcision + lower risk of HIV for circumcised females? At some point, somebody is going to add 2 + 2 and get 4. When that happens, a whole new wave of "preventative" Female Genital Mutilation will begin. Last I heard, women contracting HIV from rape and then infecting other men was considered a major cause in the spread of the disease, so why wouldn't they try to do everything they possibly could to prevent women from contracting it? Remember, these are also the people who are advocating putting all homosexuals to death. Do you really think they're going to stop short of female children in the effort to solve the epidemic, when they already cut the genitals of female children, or do you think they'll just do it more?

What if we just hide that study?
Even without that one particular study, how long do you think it will take for the people who advocate Female Genital Mutilation to find other studies, or pick up on the statistics and start doing studies themselves? Hell, even without medical justification, people are already doing it, so why wouldn't the advocates decide to do the same kind of shifty study that was done to promote male genital mutilation? The notable thing is, this may even encourage them to suggest the less invasive forms be intensified to increase the "benefit" of the procedure. Women who would have otherwise only been subjected to the lesser forms of genital cutting may instead be subjected to the forms which are designed to make any sexual activity as unpleasant as possible.

Who's to blame for this? What can be done to stop it?

Who's to blame?

You are.

Every person who has not stood up for a child's right to genital integrity, whatever form they may be in, has contributed to the idea that it is acceptable to mutilate children.

Every person who has participated in the "circumcision" of infants, whether they be a medical professional or not, has perpetuated the tradition of mutilation.

Every mother or father who did not protect their child from being cut when they were able has let that child become yet another victim, instead of an example.

Every person who has said Male Genital Mutilation is "not the same thing" has contributed to the environment which lets people not only condone, but advocate genital mutilation in Africa.

Every male who is angry about having his basic human rights violated and yet refuses to speak out is contributing to the silence which allows ignorance.

And every person who has been witness to somebody claiming genital mutilation in any form is a human rights violation and still couldn't be bothered to read an article and pass on a link to somebody else is guilty of maintaining that ignorance.

What can be done?
People need to be taught that proper hygiene, safe sex practices and medicine are preferable and more effective methods of controlling disease than genital mutilation. We need to start advocating the benefit of condoms and safe sex education, the dangers of rape (even for the perpetrator) and the sanctity of genital integrity for everybody.

Sadly, I think the seed has been planted already in Africa and the idea of cutting genitals to prevent AIDS will invariably result in the mutilation of more children, both boys and girls, than would otherwise be subjected to such abuse. In my opinion, the only way to convince the people in Africa that genital mutilation is wrong, is if the rest of us "civilized" societies can agree that ALL genital mutilation is wrong, be they female, male, or intersexed genitals. Every child must be protected from non-therapeutic genital surgery before any child can truly be safe. Then, when we tell Africa we were wrong to suggest it in the first place and plead for them to stop mutilating their own children, they won't simply look at us and say "Why shouldn't we, when you still do?"

Originally written 12-27-2011

5/06/2014

How important is redundancy in rigging?

http://www.boston.com/news/local/rhode-island/2014/05/04/report-aerial-performers-fall-during-circus-act-providence/jONRVASHacmTEy106u394M/story.html
"It has been determined that a carabiner in the rigging failed"
The carabiner used in the stunt is rated to hold 10,000 pounds, the statement said, while the total weight of the rigging and performers was less than 1,500 pounds.
The carabiner was the lone piece of equipment between the apparatus and a cable tethering the performers to the rafters.

This is a good excuse to post a rant I wrote a while ago.

How important is redundancy in rigging?

That depends on what level of risk you're willing to accept. Would you be comfortable with a hypothetical piece of equipment with a 1/1,000,000 chance of failure? If so, that's fine. However, you'd better be damn sure that 1/1,000,000 is accurate and not actually 1/500,000 or even 1/1,000. You'd also better be ready to take full responsibility if you underestimate the risk and end up dropping somebody due to equipment failure.

Is 1/1,000,000 not enough for comfort? A lot of people think doubling equipment doubles the statistical safety margin. Well, I have some good news and bad news for you. The bad news is that doubling equipment doesn't double the safety margin. The good news is that it increases it exponentially.

Let's look at it mathematically.
A 50% failure rate (1/2) with a redundancy can be plotted out to determine the statistical probability that both pieces of equipment will fail at the same time:
  • pass/pass
  • pass/fail
  • fail/pass
  • fail/fail
That works out to be 1/2² or 1/4 chance of complete failure. Similarly, a 1/3 chance of failure with a redundancy can be plotted and the statistical redundancy benefit determined:
  • pass1/pass1
  • pass1/pass2
  • pass1/fail
  • pass2/pass1
  • pass2/pass2
  • pass2/fail
  • fail/pass1
  • fail/pass2
  • fail/fail
That works out to be 1/3² or 1/9 chance of complete failure.

Having demonstrated how redundancy in equipment yields an exponential statistical safety benefit, we can calculate for more robust equipment as well:
  • 1/4² = 1/16
  • 1/6² = 1/36
  • 1/8² = 1/64
  • 1/10² = 1/100
  • 1/100² = 1/10,000
and finally,
  • 1/1,000,000² = 1/1,000,000,000,000
which, if you can hit odds like that, you can simply pay for any medical bills with your lottery winnings. Even if you're wrong about that original 1/1,000,000 chance,
  • 1/500,000² = 1/250,000,000,000
and
  • 1/1,000² = 1/1,000,000
so you're still not exactly tempting fate.

The reason for redundancy isn't necessarily that the risk of equipment failure is unreasonably high, but that it's so easy to reduce the risk of equipment failure so much.

So, how important is redundancy in rigging? You be the judge. Just be ready, whatever you decide, to take responsibility in the unlikely event something breaks and you find the person you're suspending on the floor, instead of in the air where they belong.

5/02/2014

Severe sexual violence and genital mutilation without consent is funny, Mkay?

I think it would be really funny to surprise a drunk sorority girl and chop off her genitals so I could fuck them later!  Haha!  Wouldn't that be hilarious!

No?

Well, before you grab the torches and pitchforks, consider this...





















I came across this image posted on a social networking site:
(image censored here due to Blogger's new content policy)

The caption:
I've heard of surprise sex, but I'm pretty sure that even the drunkest frat-boy isn't expecting THIS!!!
It's been up for almost 3 years, several people have "liked" it and not one negative comment has been left about it where it is posted.

However, there were a few supportive comments left under the picture, one of which is particularly interesting:
I think I'd want the male to feel fear and even relive the trauma every time he looked down when he peed. He'd then be afraid to pee. Well to pee is to live so eventually his shit will get backed up and his bladder will have to get cut open and everything would need to be rerouted, which would be yet another possible trauma. I'm really getting ideas here.
Goes to look for "volunteers"
Nobody else seemed to think that was especially offensive, either.

Still think that comment of mine at the beginning wasn't funny?  Yeah, me neither.  The difference is, the one about female genitals is generally recognized as "sexual violence" while the ones about male genitals are "just a joke."

Consent is a binary.


When it comes down to it, "consent" (a.k.a. "permission") is the difference between "sex" and "sexual assault." That "yes" or "no" is the difference between "partner" and "criminal."
 
Sure, how you feel about any particular experience is fluid and non-binary, but you don't "kind of" say "yes" or "kind of" say "no" to something. You can put conditions on that "yes" or "no," but if you don't communicate one or the other, the other person can't know whether or not they have your permission, or "consent" to engage in the activity at all.

If you present "consent" as a universal "in-between yes and no" you automatically make every single person who participates in sex "kind of a rapist" even in the best case.

Setting a standard for behavior (you must get "consent") and then not allowing people to know what that standard is ("consent" is somewhere on this scale...) is about as reasonable as posting a speed limit sign with no numbers on it.

Speed Limit: ?

Violators will be ticketed.


While participating in a recent discussion about whether consent should be a "scaled" thing, these quotes came up:
so many students tell me so many stories about when sex "wasn't a good idea" or "didn't go well" or "was not really rape but still felt awful..." or "i gave him a blow job cuz it seemed like the best way to get out of the situation." the attitude we're encouraged to take is to remind them all that it was sexual assault and a violation of their consent, no matter what. and i do think that is true.
I wasn't thinking about this as a scale I'd use with a partner to discuss sex, like "I'm a 3 on the kinsey-consent scale about this upcoming scene." more as a way to talk to other people after the fact - like "i was about a 3 on the kinsey consent scale that night"
This really bothers me.

For there to be a sexual assault - a criminal act, there has to be a perpetrator of a crime. That means every single time somebody is sexually assaulted, somebody else has to have perpetrated criminal actions against them.

For it to be possible to criminalize the actions of a person after the fact, who had been purposefully given a clearly communicated understanding that they were not committing a criminal act at the time, is simply unreasonable. (and could be argued as unconscionable)
sex "wasn't a good idea" or "didn't go well" or "was not really rape but still felt awful..." or "i gave him a blow job cuz it seemed like the best way to get out of the situation." the attitude we're encouraged to take is to remind them all that it was sexual assault and a violation of their consent, no matter what.
more as a way to talk to other people after the fact - like "i was about a 3 on the kinsey consent scale that night"
If you operate under that "consent" ideology, where regret about a bad decision and misleading communication on your part is twisted into the criminal liability of somebody else, you literally criminalize sex even when consent is given.

If you operate under that "consent" ideology, when somebody says "yes" to a well-intentioned partner, but they don't really mean yes, they are literally making the other person unknowingly commit what is considered a form of violent crime.

I'm sorry, but I'm just never going to believe that's a reasonable position on the subject of "consent." If what you communicate doesn't match what you feel, or even how you feel about it later, that's on you, not them. It may suck big-time to realize you should have said "no" instead of "yes," but your regret about your own decision doesn't make somebody else a criminal.

And despite the victim politics buzzing around the "social justice" sphere lately, feeling bad about something you do doesn't automatically mean somebody else should be punished, even if they weren't doing anything wrong. If they follow the rules in the way any reasonable person would expect them to, they are not "assaulting" you, or "violating" you, or "perpetrating" any sort of criminal activity against you. You may be traumatized by the experience, but you are not victimized by that person.



And just because I'm sure it's going to come up if I don't specifically address it, No, I'm not talking about circumstances where threat or reasonably defined intimidation are being used to coerce* a "yes" from somebody.

* "coerce" according to the actual definition, not the convoluted "social justice" definition

No, coercion is not "the same thing" as rape.

Now, why do I say this?
Am I "being ignorant"?
Am I "demonstrating my privilege"?
Am I "supporting the patriarchy/rape culture"?

No. Those are simply the claims of people who prefer to view the issue of sexual assault through ridiculous gender-political rhetoric instead of from a reality-based perspective.

Let me clarify.  This is one of the "coercions" I'm talking about.  I've also seen simple harassment and even just asking more than once referred to as "coercion."  That means I'm talking about the "popular usage" definition, rather than the "dictionary" definition.

Of course, any time you address "coercion" in that context and claim that it is not the same thing as rape, you'll be met with the same people who use the word that way quoting definitions like this (actual examples I've encountered):
co·er·cion [koh-ur-shuhn]
noun
1.
the act of coercing; use of force or intimidation to obtain compliance.
and
Coercion is not harassment.
Coercion is forcing someone to through direct force or intimidation.
and
 Coersion can include threats like "I'll kill your family"
and
1. to restrain or dominate by force
2 to compel to perform an act or choice
3 to achieve by force or threat
and
Someone intimidated into not saying no...is being coerced, and as such it is rape.
and
If you say yes ONLY because you're afraid saying no may get you hurt very very badly, YOU ARE STILL BEING RAPED.
and
Coercion: the practice of persuading someone to do something by using force or threats.
and
Coercing someone into having sex with you is rape.
and
Rape is penetration without consent. Coercion, like violence, is one of the methods used to commit rape. If non-consexual penetration happens through coercion, it is still rape.
while they absolutely ignore the fact that you're responding to how they themself are using the word and exclaim "that's not the definition of coercion!" when "coercion" is being linked with "rape" so they can try to sneak harassment, asking more than once, even just being a woman under the "rape victim" umbrella at the expense of actual rape victims.

Well, if something is not "coercion" and if you care about rape as something other than just a word you can use to inflate sympathy and status for other things, then stop intentionally using words incorrectly to do just that, you dishonest, rhetoric parroting, victim politics pandering, dumbshits.  Because when you use a word like "coercion" for everything, including things which have nothing to do with rape, then no, it's not "the same thing" as rape.

All sex is rape!


So, there's this line, "women as a class are coerced into sex by society and institutional marginalization and blah, blah, blah."

And as we have heard over and over, apparently, "coercion is the same thing as rape."

Well, if "women" are "as a class" incapable of having sex without being raped, "because institutional marginalization = coercion" then wouldn't it follow that any other class of "marginalized" people are subject to the same rules? Homosexuals are "institutionally marginalized" and transgendered people are "institutionally marginalized" and black people are "institutionally marginalized" and Hispanics, Asians, Jews, even disabled and poor people are "institutionally marginalized" according to popular rhetoric, so none of them can be considered to have the proper agency to consent to sex, right?

Turns out, the only people who are actually capable of consenting to sex are rich, straight, white, cis-male, able-bodied people, but since there's nobody else to have sex with, their only option is to have sex with each other. But wait - that would be practicing homosexuality, which means they no longer fall within the narrow class of people who possess enough agency to consent to sex.

I guess if an entire class of people should be considered incapable of meaningfully consenting to sex based on some professional victim politics rhetoric, then it's inescapable that every instance of sex between any demographics should be considered rape and all people everywhere should be prohibited from participating in it.